Thank you so much for taking the time to get to know us. We are Brian and Angela. We truly value you and the potential role you could play in our lives by giving us the greatest gift of parenthood.
We look forward to the opportunity to get to know you as well.
Expectant mothers who choose to make an adoption plan may qualify for some level of financial assistance during their pregnancy. However, each person's situation and specific needs are different. Your adoption social worker can help you determine what level of assistance you qualify for and deserve. Many expectant mothers qualify for financial assistance to cover basic pregnancy and living expenses, including but not limited to - transportation reimbursement, utility assistance for phone, water, and electricity/gas, maternity clothing and supplements, etc.
It won't cost you anything. If you choose to place your baby for adoption, all of your medical and legal fees will be covered and you may be eligible for financial assistance with other pregnancy-related expenses.
Yes. Even if you don’t know the identity of the birth father, you can still choose to make an adoption plan. However, every adoption situation is different. The adoption social worker you’re assigned to will get to know you and your story first, and then guide you through the process accordingly.
You can make an adoption plan at any point in your pregnancy, even after the baby has been born. But, it's important to start the process as early in your pregnancy as possible. Connecting with those resources will allow you to gain access to important medical services, including prenatal care, to help ensure a healthy pregnancy.
One aspect of your adoption plan is the "Hospital Plan" an outline of how you'd like your hospital stay and delivery to go. You can craft this on your own or with the help of your adoption social worker. But everything is up to you. You’ll be able to choose who comes to the hospital with you, who is in the room with you during delivery, and how much time you’d like to spend with the baby before signing the final papers.
As part of your adoption plan, you'll determine whether or not you’d like to have an open or closed adoption or something in between. Open adoptions may include phone calls, messaging (via social media, email, or text), and/or periodic visits each year. Closed adoptions may include no contact at all or annual updates provided to the birth parent(s) by the adoptive family. Each post-adoption relationship is different and can vary based on what an expectant mother chooses in her adoption plan.
Hello beautiful,
I wanted to take a moment and truly thank you for considering adoption.
Your selfless decision will impact more lives than you will ever know.
Your true act of love and life, will give hope to so many.
There will be hard moments and sad times, we acknowledge and respect that.
But you will always have peace knowing your child is unconditionally loved and provided for.
You will always be apart of their lives as a valued person in our family. We will always respect and honor you.
We will pray for you daily and continue the lifelong conversation and connection of our family to you.
If you would like to get to know us better, please send us a message and follow our page Angela & Brian’s Hope to Adopt.
We look forward to hearing from you.
With Love,
Angela & Brian
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How to Face Thanksgiving With an Unplanned Pregnancy:
Being with family during the holidays can be intense and might bring up issues. Since you’re facing a crisis, you might have difficulty feeling festive and getting “into” all the holiday cheer around you.
Know that you’re not alone. Many women have been where you’re at and have felt like you’re feeling right now.
Once you arrive at Thanksgiving festivities pregnant, some family members may ask you snoopy, nosy questions like “are you sure you’re ready to be a mom right now?!” Think about it this way: is anyone really ever *really* ready? There are a lot of aspects of adoption and motherhood to think about. Making an adoption plan and becoming a mom are both major life events, ones that take lots of time and thought before starting.
The truth is, no one can tell you what you should do next. People will tell you what they think you should do, of course, but they can’t tell you how having or not having this baby will affect your life.
So if people ask you awkward (or downright rude) questions, you could respond with something like, “I am going to take some time to think about it, so I can make the best decision for my baby’s future. Right now, I’m just taking things day by day.”
If you feel like you just can’t go to Thanksgiving dinner because of your situation, it’s OK to put this tradition aside to care for your needs right now. Sometimes we feel like we have to carry on with life as usual. But the reality is that things aren’t as usual. Even if you’re making an adoption plan and your family supports it, you might still have a hard time acting like nothing’s changed or nothing’s happening.
Written by Heidi Keefer
Today, we took one more step toward meeting our little blessing
We completed the training for Diversity and Growth.
This was a high level view of important topics we are ready to learn more about as adoptive parents.
Brian was actually a great resource for the group about the long term views of an adoptee.
Diversity understanding has always been an important part of our lives and parenting.
The following is a picture of our son at church, surrounded by the children of our closest friends.
If you are considering adoption, we would love to hear from you!
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A Dad who is all in: Means the World🌎
And Brian is definitely ALL IN as a DAD!
Since Brian works at the Farmette full time, he’s able to spend a majority of his time with our son. He takes our little guy to school and picks him up everyday.
They choose their daily after school activity:
Time at a Park (NJ has so many to choose from),
a trip to the grocery store (surprisingly one of the favorite weekly activities) or an occasional trip to McDonald’s Play Area.
The amount of dad time our little guy gets has truly been a blessing.
If you’re considering adoption, we would love to get to know you better.
Please message us at any time
When you're Living on a farm you learn to be continuous Care Taker:
We have a unique view in life.
Filled with love and compassion.
We spend our days taking care of our animals and son.
We take pride in protecting those without a voice and giving them the best life possible.
Helping animals from a young age, has taught our son a true gentleness of heart.
We would love to be an advocate and caretaker for your precious gift.
If you’re considering adoption; please contact us to get to know us better.
#adoptionjourney #adoptionislove #adopt
Learning to balance it all….
The last few days have been unseasonably warm for November. Yesterday it hit 78 degrees in NJ.
After church we arrived home to acres of leaves at our little farm. We could hear the responsible neighbors, mowing and blowing to cleanup their yards.
We looked at each and said “want to head to the beach and do the leaves tomorrow?”
We’re blessed to live less than an hour from “Americans Greatest Family Resort”. So with the extra hour from daylight saving’s: we headed to the beach!
It was the relaxing, connecting time our family needed to unwind and dig our toes in the sand.
We’ve learned to take opportunities of life yet still manage the clean ups. I believe this aspect has made us better parents and happier people as a whole.
If you’re considering adoption, we would love to get to know you. Please send us a message.
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